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The location where Robert DiBernardo was murdered

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This is the location where Robert "DiB" DiBernardo was murdered.

It is situated at 1809 Stillwell Avenue in Brooklyn, New York.

At the time of the murder, this outlet was being used as a front by "Sammy the Bull" Gravano, who was a high-ranking member of the Gambino crime family.

These days, the property belongs to an unrelated security company called Alarms-R-Us.

Gambino family

DiBernardo was a mobster and a major player in the adult film industry.

Although he was a senior member of the Gambino family, he did not run a crew or get involved in violence. Instead, he was mostly a lone operator who focused on publishing adult films and magazines.

Besides the adult industry, DiBernardo was also involved in a number of labor unions and legitimate businesses.

It is believed that he used his mob connections to intimidate his competitors into either joining his growing network or going out of business.

This strategy largely worked, as he became a major earner for the Gambino family.

DiBernardo's house
DiBernardo was a big earner for the family. He lived in a large 7,330-square-foot mansion at 1101 Harbor Road in Hewlett, New York.
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Due to his success, he received special status and was allowed to report directly to the boss, Paul Castellano.

Robert DiBernardo
DiBernardo wasn't a typical mobster.

DiBernardo's name received significant media attention after it emerged that he had previously rented a property from the husband of Geraldine Ferraro, who was the Democratic Party's vice presidential nominee for the 1984 election.

In the decade that followed, insinuations about Ferraro's connections to "DiB" plagued her political career and likely contributed to her narrow loss in the Democratic primary for the 1992 US Senate election in New York.

In 1985, Gambino capo John Gotti took control of the family after he orchestrated Castellano's murder at Sparks Steak House.

Although DiBernardo remained a senior member due to his ability to make money, the fact that he didn't have his own crew left him vulnerable to others.

Whenever he attended a meeting, he would show up by himself, with no loyal soldiers by his side.

Angelo Ruggiero

Following Castellano's death, there were calls to promote "DiB" to the position of capo. However, Gotti stubbornly resisted these requests for reasons that remain unknown.

When Gotti was held in prison for an upcoming trial, he appointed an unpredictable psychopath named Angelo Ruggiero to act as his eyes and ears on the ground.

Angelo Ruggiero
Angelo "Quack Quack" Ruggiero.

Ruggiero was a brash, loud-mouthed individual who lacked the intelligence and organizational skills to hold a top position in the mob world.

Ruggiero disliked DiBernardo, as the businessman had openly voiced his opinion that "Sammy the Bull" Gravano would be a more suitable underboss than him.

In addition, Ruggiero also reportedly owed "DiB" roughly $250,000.

Sammy the Bull

In June 1986, Ruggiero approached Gravano and told him that Gotti had ordered DiBernardo's murder from behind bars.

During their conversation, he claimed that the "DiB" was "talking sh*t" behind the boss's back and possibly gearing up for a power play.

Gravano was hesitant to act on this order, as he wanted to hear it from Gotti himself, not some psychopath who owed "DiB" money. At the time, he was acutely aware that Ruggiero may have been engineering DiBernardo's death by misrepresenting the truth to Gotti.

The suggestion that "DiB" was somehow planning a coup also didn't make sense, as he didn't even have his own crew. In Gravano's opinion, you needed a significant amount of muscle to topple a boss and take control:

"He had no crew. He wasn't a shooter. He was no threat."

However, Ruggiero remained adamant that Gotti wanted DiBernardo dead. He also stated that the boss was becoming increasingly irate about the delay.

By that point, Gravano started to believe that Gotti had personal issues with DiBernardo, as he had previously resisted calls to promote the businessman to the role of capo. He also began to doubt that Ruggiero was bold enough to fabricate such an order.

Consequently, he eventually agreed to carry out the hit.

DiBernardo's murder

On June 5th, 1986, Gravano lured DiBernardo to this location on Stillwell Avenue under the pretense that he wanted to hold a short meeting. At the time, the outlet belonged to a drywall company, which served as a front for his crew.

1809 Stillwell Avenue
1809 Stillwell Avenue in July 2022. Note that the current owners have no ties to the mafia. Public records show that the property was sold for $215,000 in 1996, which was ten years after the murder. Credit: Google Maps.

DiBernardo said that his schedule was full but agreed to drop by and have a quick chat over coffee.

At around 5.50 p.m., he arrived alone at 1809 Stillwell Avenue and joined Gravano in the basement office.

Also present that evening were Thomas "Huck" Carbonaro and Joseph "Old Man" Paruta, two soldiers in Gravano's crew.

When the "meeting" began, Gravano directed Paruta to get "DiB" a coffee. Paruta then walked to the back of the room, retrieved a silenced pistol from a cabinet, and shot DiBernardo twice in the back of the head.

Joseph Old Man Paruta
Gravano and "Old Man" Paruta.

Following the murder, a cleanup crew wrapped his body up and placed it in the trunk of a car.

What happened next remains a mystery, as DiBernardo's remains have never been found.

It is important to note that DiBernardo wasn't an innocent businessman who got caught up with the wrong people.

Although he reportedly became a made man in the Gambino family without murdering anyone, there is evidence to suggest that he played an active role in other heinous crimes.

For example, the FBI believed that his adult film empire was actively exploiting children. At the time of his death, he was awaiting trial on child pornography charges.

On the evening of his murder, he left his office, got into his new 1986 Mercedes-Benz, and called his family to discuss a dinner date that they had planned.

That was the last time they heard from him.

Address

The address and GPS coordinates for the building are as follows:

Address

1809 Stillwell Avenue, Brooklyn, New York, NY 11223, USA

GPS Coordinates

40.602377, -73.986097
40°36'08.56"N 73°59'09.95"W

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Area Information

📍 The building is situated in the Gravesend neighborhood of Brooklyn. It is close to the corner of Stillwell Avenue and Highlawn Avenue.

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